His Perfect Proposal

 

A moment that I couldn't have even imagined being half as sweet and wonderful as Keane made it, happened on the very first day of 2014. 

January 2nd is Keane's mother's birthday and for quite some time, Keane and I had planned on going to Swiss Meat Company on New Year's Day to pick up some food and treats for his mom (so I thought).  We decided to leave the kids at my parents' while we road tripped our way there.  On our way to Swiss, we went through Hermann.

Let me back up...five years ago, we celebrated our first New Year's Eve and New Year's Day together.  We went out for New Year's Eve, stayed sober, and enjoyed a road trip the following day.  We went to Hermann and took back roads to Keane's college stomping grounds at Linn.  It was a very fun and memorable day for the two of us, and we have talked about it often since.  The bridge over the Missouri River in Hermann was newly renovated in 2009, so Keane and I had walked alongside it on a walking path that day and stood in the middle of the bridge, on the county line between Montgomery and Gasconade Counties.  We carved our initials there that day.

On Wednesday, we talked about our initials and we decided to see if we could find them.  We parked the vehicle and walked hand-in-hand to the center of the same bridge, to the same spot we stood together exactly five years earlier.  We watched the muddy water, we watched Keane's spit make a big splash, and we talked about how pretty everything was.  We looked for our old initials which had either wore off or had been painted over sometime in these past five years.  I told Keane he should carve our initials again. 

Keane said that he thought five years ago I stood in one county, and he stood in the other, so I was going to take a step to be in the other county, but he held my arm and said, "But how about this year we both stand in the same county and I ask you to marry me."  And he got down on one knee, on the bridge over the Missouri River, with cars going by, on a beautiful, fresh January day, and while he said, "Kristina, will you marry me?" I looked in his bright brown eyes and took it all in.  I looked at the box he had opened in his hand with a beautiful diamond ring.  I looked back at him and I told him of course I would!  I hugged him and kissed him (over and over) and put my beautiful new ring on my finger.  It fit perfectly! 

I didn't want the moment to end.  I didn't want to walk off that bridge.  We walked hand-in-hand, as slowly as he would let me walk, back toward our vehicle.  We stopped by a bench and looked at other initials.  We made it back to the car and he opened the door for me.  I told him I didn't want the moment to be over.  I cried.  It was everything I'd hoped it would be, and so so  much more.

I will be honest that I've thought about this moment happening for awhile, and not in a million years could I have imagined just how magical and romantic and special I felt when Keane asked me to marry him.  I am so excited to be his fiancé.  I feel so close to him, and I am so thankful for our love.

The kids knew Keane was going to ask me.  He had told them a few weeks ago.  On Christmas, Kylie asked Keane, "Are you going to give Kristi the ring?"  And Kaden replied for Keane, "No, Kylie, on New Year's."  Keane showed Kaden, Kylie, and Kollin the ring on New Year's Eve, and Kylie told Keane that she was shaking.  When Keane and I dropped the kids off at my parents' house that day, I went to walk them inside.  Kaden and I had already left the vehicle, and before Kylie got out, she said, "Good luck, Daddy!"

Keane and I took back roads home after we left Hermann and I called Keane's mom, my sister, and my cousin. Then we shared the news with my parents, Kollin, and the kids, who were all anxiously awaiting our arrival.  My mom cried when I told the story, and my dad and brother shook Keane's hand, welcoming his "officially" into the family.  (Keane had gotten my dad's blessing beforehand.)  We showed Keane's parents the ring and shared the story.  They were very excited.  They congratulated us and said I'll be a good addition to the family and that Keane has good taste.  I feel so very loved.

Kaden and Kylie were so excited for this moment.  They are so excited they can call me "Mommy."  That's what they were calling me all evening and this morning.  It warms my whole heart -- their excitement and their love.  I told them that I am very excited to be able to be a part of their family -- officially.  Dierks Bentley's song, "I Hold On," was playing on the radio on our way home after picking up the kids, and we all held each other's hands.  Kylie reached up and grabbed mine, and her little hand felt like the world to me. 

My ring is beautiful -- it's as perfect as the whole day was.  It means so much to me -- all of it.  I'm so very excited for this step in our relationship -- the engagement.  To be his fiancé, and for him to be mine.